The Benefits Of Getting Hitched Over 50

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By Michael Shane

Life Is Grand!

Should I Marry Over 50?

Of course....why not? Life is still filled with love at all ages..Why not enjoy your golden years with someone you love....This can be controversial where I live because of children can make their parent feel guilty if the other parent has passed on and then the parent left behind choosing to date or remarry.....Never!, let your kids try to make your decisions....After all, most of them are married & got their own families.....You deserve to enjoy your life & be happy too! Loneliness can be a beast for some of us out there.....Listed below are the benefits & tips for marrying over 50........

What Will I Need To Prepare For.......

  • First off, if you have been single for sometime & about to jump on the "Loveboat" of marriage, you can expect to having to adjust!
  • The significant other has established routines & habits which will take time to adopt...
  • It will not be uncommon to get in little spats over your grown children, personal finances, & things of such sorts...
  • Remember, you are in your golden years & by now, are set in your ways! Have to go back to the give & take state of mind....
  • Both of you at this point have your own preferences that you are accustomed to doing such as certain foods, diet, hobbies, & your personal favorites.....
  • Try to keep in mind that one or both of you may require time & devotion to each other's health conditions or etc... This requires attention that can take away the once enjoyed personal space you once had......

Now, that you prepared & settled in, there is some great benefits to also consider marrying over the age of 50! Here we go........

What's The Benefits?

  • Assumption of your spouse's pension....
  • Breaks on Insurance...
  • Benefit's for Social Security Survivor's
  • Breaks on Taxes
  • Inheritance that will be received automatically....
  • You are eligible for "Exemption" from Property Tax on your partner's death...
  • You are eligible for certain property rights...
  • Another benefit is you become able to get reduced membership rates...
  • There are many more benefits to being married & over 50, these are just hard core facts!

Obviously, the greatest benefit of all, is having someone to share & love your life with during this wonderful journey..........

Marriage can be a wonderful & beautiful blessing to those who seek it & committ to it. The rewards can be gratifying & feeled with joyfullness! No matter, what age...........We should never jump into a marriage and not understand what it means or it will typically end in divorce. Marriage is for real lovers & team players who devote their lives to each other & stand by their words....Unfortunately & fortunately, it took me 3 times to learn this key function of the meaning of marriage....

Here is a link that can help you more than this hub ever could regarding every single aspect of marriage & I highly recommend you check it out if you are going to get married or you are already married,,,,, http://www.foreverfamilies.net/xml/articles/benefitsofmarriage.aspx

Here is a great song by Huey Lewis that I would like to share.....Check out the words in the lyrics.....

The power of love is a curious thing
make a one man weep, make another man sing
Change a hawk to a little white dove
more than a feeling, that's the power of love

Tougher than diamonds, rich like cream
Stronger and harder than a bad girl's dream
make a bad one good make a wrong one right
power of love that keeps you home at night

Chorus 1 :
You don't need money, don't take fame
Don't need no credit card to ride this train
It's strong and it's sudden and it's cruel sometimes
but it might just save your life
That's the power of love
That's the power of love

First time you feel it, it might make you sad
Next time you feel it it might make you mad
But you'll be glad baby when you've found
that's the power makes the world go'round

Chorus 2 :
And it don't take money, don't take fame
don't need no credit card to ride this train
It's strong and it's sudden it can be cruel sometimes
but it might just save your life

They say that all in love is fair
yeah, but you don't care
But you know what to do
when it gets hold of you
and with a little help from above
you feel the power of love
you feel the power of love
Can you feel it ?
Hmmm

Chorus 3 :
It don't take money and it don't take fame
don't need no credit card to ride this train
Tougher than diamonds and stronger than steel

you won't feel nothin' till you feel
you feel the power, just FEEL the power of love
That's the power, that's the power of love
You feel the power of love
you feel the power of love
feel the power of love

Beautiful Quotes On Marriage:

  • "Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner." By Amy Bloom
  • "Love is an idea thing, marriage is a real thing." by Goethe
  • "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, and always with the same person." by Mignon McLaughlin

I was inspired to write this hub because my wife's aunt is 73 & going to get married next Saturday....We spent the whole day visiting with them yesterday & helping them prepare for their wedding....So beautiful to see love alive even at 75!!!!

I wish all you a great search for your soulmate & those that are married & big congratulations for your success in marriage.............

Thanks for visiting..........

Michael Gladden

Comments

msorensson profile image

msorensson Level 3 Commenter 2 years ago

Ohhhh hope...[smiles]

Thanks, Michael

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Michael Shane Hub Author 2 years ago

Thanks for the visit msorensson..

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Enlydia Listener Level 6 Commenter 2 years ago

Emotions don't stop at 50...contrarily most of us probably still feel like 17 at this age.

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katiem2 2 years ago

Michael, This is a beautiful hub, my Dad died young and my Mom is still alone, I hope one day she meets someone to share the rest of her life with. Thanks and Peace :)

"Quill" 2 years ago

Love conquers all and no matters the age it still has its power to bless...

Blessings

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one2get2no Level 4 Commenter 2 years ago

Excellent hub

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fishtiger58 Level 1 Commenter 2 years ago

Very nice hub, hopefully I won't have to worry about love after 50 as I am happily married. Thanks for a great read.

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samboiam 2 years ago

I am not over 50 even though some think I am. I have been married for 19 years. I would hate to think about having to do the dating thing again. Great hub. Keep witing.

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dreamreachout Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

Wonderful hub .. Very true and all practical!! Afterall old age is more a mind thing than physical!!

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Jennifer D. 2 years ago

Very nice. Interesting how it sometimes takes us one or more marriages before we "get it right". I was married once, and doubt I'd do it again since getting a divorce is so costly and time consuming.

However, when you find the right person it makes all the difference. Best of luck to your wife's aunt and her beloved!!

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billyaustindillon Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

"Love is an idea thing, marriage is a real thing." by Goethe - perfect quote for what it is all about, keep it real Michael :)

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James A Watkins Level 8 Commenter 2 years ago

I enjoyed reading your Hub. I appreciate your advice. Thanks.

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Kaie Arwen Level 3 Commenter 2 years ago

Life isn't over after 50........... it's just another number..........

and yes, life is grand.......... never doubt it!

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mquee Level 1 Commenter 2 years ago

I did it 3 years ago at 58. I am very happy and I enjoy my married life.

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rpalulis 2 years ago

Awesome hub!

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habee Level 7 Commenter 2 years ago

I don't want to have to date again if something happens to JOhnny. But I don't think I'd want to be alone, either. Is there a catalog somewhere for a mail order hubby??

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Michael Shane Hub Author 2 years ago

I'm not sure Habee....LOL! I know you can do mail order brides....

Thank everyone else for sharing your comments regarding this topic.....Always, thanks for stopping by...

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GarnetBird Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

I met my "Bitter half" when I was 47 and he was 48. Theres alot to be said about romances later in life. Nice Hub!

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carolina muscle Level 1 Commenter 2 years ago

Love and romance are much more rewarding in middle age... at least, that's what I keep telling myself. LOL. Nice post!!

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Micky Dee Level 4 Commenter 2 years ago

If God will allow it then it will happen. I guess it's already written down. I have no idea. I thought I had a promise but I can't speak for God. I can speak of God. Thanks Michael.

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Michael Shane Hub Author 2 years ago

GarnetBird, did you mean your "Better-half?" LOL!

I agree Chris....The middle age years seem so better.....

Micky Dee, God has a plan for you pal & already blesses us with your writing....

Thanks to all of ya' for stopping by...

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menomania 2 years ago

I am always saying, if my husband dies I will have to move far away from my children. I love them so much, but they have that same strong personality trait of their father. If left on my own, they will scrutinize and try to control every aspect of my life (for my good, of course). We all joke about it and they laugh when I talk about it. For now, it is all in fun, but . . . Oh, I love that song by Huey Lewis. I went to one of his concerts in my early twenties, it was great.

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Michael Shane Hub Author 2 years ago

Thanks for sharing menomania.....Huey Lewis does have some great stuff....

Lalitha V Raman 2 years ago

Hi!

"...greatest benefit of all, is having someone to share & love your life with during this wonderful journey..."

Very wise and very true! nicely written...

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tonymac04 2 years ago

Thank you, Michael. I got married again at 55 so I know what you're talking about here. Great Hub!

Love and peace

Tony

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lxxy 2 years ago

k@ri is still a tad far from this age, but I still see our relationship as something that couldn't have occurred until recently.

Great information for people of all ages!

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Cathi Sutton 2 years ago

Good Hub. I've been alone since '06, and I'm not interested in getting married at this stage of life. I just don't think I could ever adjust to someone elses quirks or habits, since I'm so set in my own ways. :) I do wish I had a good non-romantic male friend to talk to, go places with, and just friendly stuff like that, with no pressure, no expectations of it leading to a romantic relationship. But... so far I have to just be happy the way things are!

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Tkumah 24 months ago

Oh boy, you make marriage seem like a great idea. I gave up on it long time ago......

Can't say I changed my mind after reading but.... I'll give it a second thought someday.....

Thank you for sharing that marriage can be fun and useful.

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BJBenson 24 months ago

I hope I never lose my Husband, but I thought this was a wonderful hub.

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Gigi2 23 months ago

Great hub and I love the song. 'Little' spats over kids, haha, mndful of ailments...HAHA, but all worth it. I remarried at 50...best thing I ever did. thanks for sharing such a wise hub.

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heymcs 22 months ago

Though I dread the day I lose one of my parents I hope I will have the grace and maturity to accept anyone they find to share the rest of their life with. I live in a building with many single seniors and I know while many enjoy a solitary life, I'm sure many also wish for companionship & love. Marriage is always a dance - no matter the age of the participants. Nice hub.

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Maryanne Maguire 22 months ago

Hey, romance novel fan - -LOVE this!!

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KoffeeKlatch Gals Level 6 Commenter 22 months ago

By the time you turn 50 one hopes that you have gained enough experience and common sense to pick someone you can love for the rest of your life. As far as family being a problem, I would think when they see how happy this person makes you they will accept them, if they don't already. Love is wonderful the second ( or third or fourth or...) time around. Great hub.

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vocalcoach Level 7 Commenter 18 months ago

A really good hub! I am ready to fall in love again - with a person, that is. Each day I fall in love with nature, my family, my dog, friends and even me. :-)

I am 60 something (act like 20) and now am thinking that it may not be too late. Supurb writing. Thanks

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Justsilvie Level 4 Commenter 9 months ago

This a fantastic Hub! I especially like the "What Will I Need To Prepare For" part.

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